Learning about Mens Bondage Gear
When my partner suggested that we start experimenting with bondage, the first thing that I wanted to do was check out mens bondage gear to see what it was all about. To be honest, the whole idea of getting into the bondage scene made me more than a little nervous. I guess I’ve always been what is considered a vanilla type of guy when it comes to sex and this idea was going to mean delving into a completely new and dark world for me. I felt a genuine fear at the mere thought of being tied up and left helpless and defenseless.
That brings up something else when it comes to the subject of bondage and mens bondage gear. Trust is a very strong part of this whole scene because, if you don’t trust your partner to not do anything really horrible to you or something that you don’t want done, it’s just not going to work. The only reason that I even entertained the thought of practicing bondage is that I trust my partner implicitly. I know that he won’t do anything to me that I would find offensive or horribly painful. So you need to have total trust in a bondage relationship.
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Another thing is that you don’t have to make it a lifestyle. Bondage can simply be something you play with every now and then to spice up your sex life a little. When you look at mens bondage gear; you’ll find some pretty serious stuff, but there’s also a lot of other things that you can try out that wouldn’t be considered heavy or hardcore. My partner and I have decided to purchase any bondage items we want to test on the Internet. There are a lot more choices, cheaper prices and no one asks you any questions. Discretion is something else that I insisted upon if we’re going to do this so it can be our little secret.